Readers & Listeners AC Stories
(Please feel free to write me with your stories and we can share them here.)
Dear Sandra,
As you know, my beloved Bear passed into Spirit a month ago - June 3, 2009. This was on a Wednesday. For 3 days I was inconsolable in my grief. Then I happened upon your website and felt urged to call to set up an appointment. When we spoke Sunday morning I immediately felt a connection with Bear and by the end of the call, a sense of peace. It was almost as though he was telling me - “Mom, do not fear death. Though it seems I am no longer with you, I assure you all is well. I am still here in Spirit. If you listen, you can hear me. If you look, you can see me.”
About a week after this, my neighbor came out to the car with his little Maltese to ask how I was doing. Tucker looked into the back seat where Bear always sat, then looked into my eyes, and put his little paw on my arm. I very clearly heard him say, “I am so sorry for your loss.” I, in turn replied, “Tucker, thank you for your condolences.” What an amazing conversation!
Since then I have often times felt a strong sense of Bear’s presence. I have seen him in “Dream-Time” walking the perimeters of the yard. I have felt him lying by my bed at night.
When my mother passed over in 1997 I was left with strong feelings of grief and sadness, but worse of all, a complete loss of faith and a terrible doubt about the continuation of life. Now, with your help and that of my “fur-faced angel”, I realize that life does not, indeed cannot die, but goes on in a different form. And, communication with all of Life goes on all the time - if only we are open to the possibility.
Love,
Barb
Mother’s Bird
~ by Jane Adams
My Mother has always loved birds. She always had a parakeet when I was
growing up. Later on in years she had always wanted a parrot. So finally she got
a small parrot. She really loved the little guy and she asked me to keep him for a
week while she went on vacation.
Well, before she left she said to leave the little door to his cage open so he could fly around in the room where his cage was during the day. I did that very thing to keep him happy while she was gone.
Now, here she comes back after a week being gone, so happy to see her bird.
As we say our good-byes she picks up the cage, says thanks for keeping him and walks out the door.
Neither one of us noticed that his little birdcage door was still open. Well, he saw his chance for freedom and he flew away out into the wild blue yonder after me taking such good care of him and trying to keep the cat from eating him ALL WEEK!!!!
One morning a few days later I opened the front door to get the morning paper. Well there he was perched on a tree limb in the front yard looking all happy and free. However I could have been wrong in assuming that. He very well might have been reminiscing about that free bird food and a roof over his little bird head.
Ha! You just never know do you?
Dear Jane,
When my sister and I lived in Southern California, she had a Cockatiel named Nicky. He also had freedom in our household to fly around. He was very determined to be with people and we didn’t think he knew he was a bird. If we put him on the ground, he would march over to us, climb up our bodies and then sit on our chest as he gave us kisses. He loved to be held and snuggled. Strangely enough he loved the stinky smell of my sister’s boyfriend’s socks! Oueeh! At first sunlight, every morning he would come in and wake me up with chirps and kisses. I often teasingly asked my sister why her bird had to wake me up instead of her on those early mornings.
We had a similar thing happen to Nicky, but not quite the happy ending you shared. Nicky loved to land on people’s heads when they came over for a visit. One day a child selling cookies came to our apartment leaving the door slightly ajar. Nicky flew to give the little boy his typical greeting, but the boy ducked and Nicky flew out. We called and called for him, but we did not find him again. (My sister had stopped clipping his wings because she felt it was too unkind.)
Since we couldn’t find him, we imagined Nicky was free to find a girlfriend and perhaps start a family in the wild! Or, we hoped he flew on someone’s head and they gave him a wonderful home. Come to think of it, I’m an animal communicator and since life never ends, I can ask Nicky what happened and how he’s doing.
Nicky was one of my Master Teachers. He taught me just how incredibly loving birds can be! I thank him for that and would give just about anything to again be awakened at dawn with his sweet chirps and kisses!
Thank you Jane for sharing your story! You have inspired me to share mine, too!
Blessings
Sandra
Hi Sandra ~
I enjoyed your bird story too. My Mother had a bird from as far back as I can
remember. One of my first memories was when I first started to crawl or walk.
Mother had this beautiful ornate birdcage that stood way up in the air on an
iron pole that was right next to the couch. I guess I had my Mother’s love for
birds even then. Well, I proceeded to climb up on the couch. While I was
crawling up there I pulled the birdcage down on my head.
You should have heard all the ruckus and loud squawking. Poor bird was
probably scared to death. I had tons of bird seed all in my hair and water all
over me.
It kind of reminds me now of the old cartoon Sylvester and Tweety bird where
the cat was always trying to get the bird.
Ha! As for me, all I ever wanted to do was pet the bird.
All my best Sweetie,
Jane
Hello Sandra,
My husband got the recorded shows from your internet radio show and I am looking forward to hearing them all! I called Sunday about Andy my chinchilla and have good news to report. Though I know this will take time but the end result in my effort for that night was a great step forward. Using a soft voice, surrounding him with love, gently sharing nonverbal feelings from heart about how sad I am that that we have not been able to bond in all these years. I left him with the option to think about his life with me and if he feels safe and could we be closer at some point. We had been watching a family show together and all this took place after the show while sitting in the living room and on the way back to his home. I left him on his shelf so I could feed him and attend to his other needs. What happened later is wonderful.
After getting Andy settled for the night I went over to him and asked him if I could open his door. He was sitting on the shelf while I sent pictures of me rubbing his chin, gently stroking his side and head. He tightened himself with a little whimper but let me begin. I started the chin rub after a minute he tilted his head giving me more room…then his front paw lifted and head tilting he relaxed enjoying it. The side and head came next and it was so nice till he suddenly jumped off the shelf! Not wanting to stop I made a fist and set my hand on the floor. Andy backed up hesitant. I wrapped him in the light of love and he leaned forward placing his front paws on my hand then quickly backed up. I sent him feelings of friendship and trust to please understand that I would not pick him up while keeping my hand still. Suddenly Andy jumped and wrapped his paws around my wrist laying his head on my hand giving me a hug. It was quick but I felt a promise that tho it would be hard things will get better.
Thank you,
Leah